The Secret To Relationships Masterclass, by Rhonda Byrne, is an Amazon Audible audiobook that has helped thousands of women optimize their relationships.
Just so you know, I'm a guy. Two of my friends listened to this selection with their Audible membership and said it would help other women if I wrote a blog post about it.
One is a teacher, and the other, a nurse. In the past, they have had low-class boyfriends who either cheated on them, or just used them for sex, until they found someone else.
About two ago years, they found Rhonda's audiobook, and with the help of their counselors, started putting their shattered hearts back together.
Fast forward and now they both have nice boyfriends, who proposed to them.
I've met these two guys. Several times. They were both college athletes, are real soft-spoken, but ambitious as heck, and make a lot of money.
What changed? How did my friends go from being attached to losers, to finding quality partners?
Miriam (27) the teacher said, "Rhonda's audiobook was the key. Her entire premise is: your mindset shapes your relationships and your life. This was true for me. My dating life, and the lack of commitment from potential parttners had made me real negative."
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Our relationships and lives are mirrors, reflecting our habitual thoughts, words, and predominant mindset.
This occurs through the mystical yet governing the Law of Attraction - we attract experiences that are energetically aligned with our dominant mental frequency.
If you perpetually criticize and blame others, you will attract more people and situations to criticize into your reality.
Anger and resentment create an energetic match with negative circumstances.
However, if you consciously cultivate positive thoughts of joy, optimism, and empathy, you'll notice positive experiences flooding into your life.
Even listening and sympathizing with constant complainers can begin altering your mindset and attracting negativity, if you're focused on the criticism.
Valid reasons for complaints don't override the Law of Attraction.
**Please read that again.**
To uplift your relationships and life, avoid engaging with chronic complainers, and if you must, remain neutral without agreeing or judging.
Shifting your perspective from judgement to understanding, from pessimism to gratitude, will transform what you attract.
Our mindset and focus shapes our lives. By elevating your thoughts, you elevate your reality.
ConniLee (27), the nurse said, "It took awhile for me to admit. I had surrounded myself with complainers...which can be easy in an overwhelming hospital environment.
Plus, the guys I attracted were forever complaining about either their boss, their exes, or that they were not paid what they were worth. All of this negativity just fed on itself, and sucked me right into it.
Fortunately, Miriam told me about Rhonda's book on Audible. I was looking for a new spiritual path, and this was just what I needed.
We made a pact to listen to this tape as much as possible, and would meet to discuss it on Sundays.
Between Miriam, and a great therapist (who had this book on her own iPhone!) my perspective began to change.
About 8 months later, I started meeting some really great guys. I mean, really great. They were all kind, pleasant, good-looking, and hard-workers.
Then Jake came along. He was a new anesthesiologist who was a decathlete at University Of Oregon. He was not ashamed about pursuing me, and he did it with class.
Now, almost a year later, we'll be married in 3 weeks. I cannot believe how much my life has changed just from listening to a book on tape."
Both of my friends were stuck in a downward spiral of toxic relationships and dissatisfaction - the more they complained, the worse their lives became.
Their incessant criticism and blame created a riptide of negativity, pulling them deeper into darkness.
My girlfriend said it was hard to be around them. They had both been hurt repeatedly by jackass men, and they certainly did not see the world as a very inviting place.
This self-perpetuating vortex is the dangerous undertow of complaining.
When we vocalize criticism or cynicism, we strengthen neural pathways of negativity in our brains.
This energy attracts more situations and people to complain about. Soon, we cannot see the positive for the fog of condemnation.
Like quicksand, the more they struggled against external factors, the faster they sank.
Blaming others prevents ownership of our reality. The first step is ceasing the stream of complaints, which short-circuits the cycle.
When they both started practicing gratitude instead of criticism, their thoughts buoyed upwards, attracting positivity into their relationships.
Complaining reinforces neural pathways of negativity, creating an energetic undertow in your life.
The Secret To Relationship Masterclass seeks to reverse the cycle, focusing on expressing gratitude and taking responsibility for your experiences.
You possess the power to transform your reality one thought at a time. Rhonda Byrne's audiobook will help you get there.
In her audiobook, Rhonda discusses one woman stuck in a series of abusive relationships.
The shift from complaining to sincere appreciation utterly transformed her world.
Despite a traumatic past, she broke free from the spiral of negativity.
How?
She made a conscious decision to release all criticism and focus wholeheartedly on reasons to love people.
When we appreciate others, we attract more compassion.
Rhonda warns, “When you blame or complain about any person, you actually harm your life. It is your life that will suffer.”
Soon after embracing a mindset of unconditional appreciation, this woman manifested her soulmate - a gentle, caring partner who cherished her completely.
From his witty humor to his patient wisdom, he was her perfect match.
So take inventory of your thoughts - do criticism and judgement dominate? Or have you nurtured compassion and gratitude?
Remember, what we appreciate...appreciates.
When we cease the blame game and open our hearts, our lives flourish with loving connection.
Author Rhonda Byrne (pictured at right) has unveiled an amazing secret: our mindset and focus manifest our reality.
Complaining attracts negativity, while heart-centered appreciation attracts joyful connections.
We all possess the power to uplift our lives in an instant, just through shifting perspectives.
Maintaining thoughts of gratitude, empathy, and optimism can infuse your world with positivity and completely transform your relationships.
As you apply the lessons from The Secret to Relationships Masterclass, remember the Law of Attraction: “Whatever you think and say about another person, you bring to you.”
My friends, and thousands of other women, have made this work. You can, too.
Rhonda illuminates the transformative power of The Secret To Relationships Masterclass through uplifting real-world examples of people who have used these principles to profoundly improve their relationships and lives.
She brings insight into the immense potential we all hold to shape our reality and attract what we desire through the deliberate focus of our thoughts, feelings, and imagination.
We wish you a blessed path as you go forward.